Twin flames burn bright... but not for the reasons you might expect
The term 'twin flames' is a bit
misleading in my view and there's some great
misunderstanding out there on what exactly it means.
The words themselves
convey the idea that, at one time we may have been one soul that split in two.
And that through a relationship, two can again become one.
This romantic idea of 'being one'
is prevalent in our society, egged on by ancient soulmate
theory and modern culture, like the infamous 'you complete
me' scene in the movie Jerry McGuire.
Thinking of ourselves
as only half a soul isn't good for us psychologically. Spiritually, the
Edgar Cayce material clearly puts
this misconception to rest:
"That there are two identical
souls, no. No two leaves of a tree, no two blades of grass are the
same" (3285-2)
While individuals, our souls are also connected to
the universal consciousness. In other words, every person
is a portion of the same whole: we are all connected.
Soulmate or twin flames?
There is a great deal of mystery
surrounding twin flames and a great deal of intense
romanticism. To
clear my head, I turn to the Cayce material.
Soulmates come together primarily
to be 'helpmates' to one another for spiritual growth. In contrast,
rather than a sexual or romantic entanglement as the predominant bond, twin flames come together
"in order to fulfill some important work that they have in common." The
Cayce readings use Jesus and Mary as an example.
If you've found an intense
'other-half-feeling' relationship,
it's likely a karmic relationship. But do not despair! This doesn't
mean that this person isn't significant in your life, or that he or she
couldn't evolve into a soulmate relationship in time. What
is a soulmate?
Will we find our twin?
The
Cayce material doesn't linger on this question. Clearly, it states that
as helpful as soulmate relationships or twin flames may be, we are here to find wholeness
within our own souls.
If we must think in
terms of being destined to ultimate union with some other soul, then
think of it this way:
"But know, the soul is rather
the soulmate of the universal consciousness than of an individual
entity." (2988-2)
The idea of soulmates and twin souls are both
helpful and misleading.
Helpful in making a wise choice of marriage partner, and considering
the overall purpose of a relationship. Misleading if we forget that our
ultimate companion... is the universal consciousness.
To further your own
research, you might want to read Edgar Cayce on Soul Mates by Kevin
J. Todeschi.
This book tells of Edgar Cayce's past lives
and various relationships with his wife Gertrude, his son Hugh Lynn and
his secretary Gladys. Gertrude and Edgar were soulmates. Edgar and his secretary Gladys
were twin flames (it was Gladys who carefully documented
Cayce's work, which remains in the archives).
Their karma stories are a great
example of the complexity of the reincarnation question...
and the certainty that we are reunited with those souls we've known
before.
Always up to you
This
isn't a romantic notion. We're
always at choice,
as are the people that we love. Cayce himself was told that he and his
wife Gertrude might have died earlier in life, if they didn't join
together. They had a choice.
So remember, everyone
has a choice. You are
always empowered.
What if one soul is 'ready' and
the other isn't? This is a very painful situation. What to
do? Gingerly, gently, with love and compassion turn your attention to yourself.
Fate is not at work here. We're
attracted to other's 'energy bodies', because of our own vibrations.
Like attracts like. The key will always attract the lock. We'll always
stimulate in one another... what needs to be healed within ourselves.
The people we attract change as we change. Whether
karmic relationships... soulmates, or twin flames.
The more that we understand our own patterns, wounds, reasons for
being, the greater the likelihood of meeting someone who is as ready as
we are.
Personally, I find the
concept of twin flames interesting. Yet
it's not at the centre of my day to day philosophy.
It's true, I haven't met a twin flame. Until and if I do, my own
purpose, and how I choose to be in the world and in relationship with
the folks I do meet - will sustain me... beautifully.
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