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Have you met your soulmate? Take this soulmate quiz to find out...

For this soulmate quiz, I've scoured on and offline for information from respected thinkers and writers, well-known and unknown. This isn't Cosmo mag fluff! More like Cosmo... goes scuba diving. Still fun, but... with resonance.

A ‘different’ kind of soulmate quiz

While this soulmate quiz focuses mostly on romantic relationships, it can be used for any relationship that you have. Don't be surprised if by doing this soulmate quiz, you realize that you have a soulmate, but in someone you hadn't expected (I love it when that happens!).

Do you believe in reincarnation?

I'm using the assumption that our relationships take place over lifetimes. However, your beliefs about reincarnation don't matter.

Disclaimer! I am not a relationship professional. However, I've worked intensively with spritual facilitators, a past life therapist and have experienced past life regression first hand. I've delved deeply into my own current relationships and past lives and I've spent thousands of dollars (and shed many tears) along the way.

So consider this a tool you can use to keep you on track, as you're dating, or as you're re-defining what you're looking for next time around, and as you, through living your life fully, continue to peel away the mysteries of your own heart.

Instructions for this soulmate quiz

Answer Yes or No, to the following questions and tally up your answers. Look to the bottom of the quiz, for an interpretation.

Don't be scared to answer no! I know it's hard to imagine that the person you love (or loved) isn't your soulmate. It may even bring a lump to your throat or tug at your heart.

This doesn't mean this person in your life is less important. All of our relationships are important in our growth. I also believe that each has the potential to become a soulmate... with conscious work (on both your parts!).

Answer these questions ‘Yes’ or ‘No’

  1. When you first met, did you feel a great deal of unexplainable comfort when together, like a ‘low hum’?
  2. Do you bring out the best in each other?
  3. In each other's presence, do you feel safe to be your real self?
  4. Overall, for the purpose of this soulmate quiz, would you describe your relationship as ‘expansive’? (or restrictive)
  5. When there's disagreement or conflict, do you work cooperatively to resolve it? (or do you thrive in drama)
  6. When one of you screws up, in reasonable time, are you both able to forgive?
  7. Is your sex life, a natural, deepened extension of your day to day relationship?
  8. Down deep, for the purpose of this soulmate quiz, do you feel secure in your relationship? (or always worrying)
  9. Do you both find ways to build each other up? (or are there put-downs)
  10. Can you be your most vulnerable, imperfect self with each other without worrying about judgment or rejection?
  11. Adjusting for the normal need to compromise sometimes, when you solve problems, do you experience a feeling of ‘win-win’, or is one of you generally the ‘winner’ and the other the ‘loser’.
  12. Was your meeting remarkable, or serendipitous in some way?
  13. Generally, is there ease of flow in your relationship? (or does it feel like a constant struggle)
  14. Do you feel completely safe and able to express yourself sexually with this person, however you both choose to express your sexuality?
  15. When you fight, are you (generally) confident you'll work it out? (or are there extremes)
  16. For the purpose of this soulmate quiz, do you feel that you were already both pursuing your life purpose (‘on track’ in life) when you met? (or did your honey ‘fill a gap’ in you)
  17. Does your relationship encourage you to stretch outside of your comfort zones and grow as individuals? (or is it restrictive)
  18. Do you have an inspirational, creative connection?
  19. Understanding we all have different life skills, deep down, do you feel as if you're equals? (or is one of you always dominant)
  20. Does your relationship support the both of you in becoming more whole yourselves? (or do you constantly sacrifice your needs)
  21. Overall, for the purpose of this soulmate quiz, are you and your love moving together in life, in a positive direction? (or does one of you stifle the other)
  22. Understanding everyone has bad days, on balance, is there more cooperation than struggle in your relationship?
  23. Do you feel that the other is a gift provided to you by life?
  24. Together, are you working toward a larger purpose (a contribution toward humanity, for example), that neither of you could or would have tackled alone?

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Soulmate quiz interpretations

I consider all of our relationships important, lying somewhere in (what I call) a ‘soulmate continuum’. The good news is that all relationships have the potential to be soulmates.

The ‘bad’ news (so to speak) is that... we may not be able to transform the karma from every relationship into a soulmate, in this lifetime. What is karma?

Ouch! I know that might hurt to hear. It really hurt me when I heard it for the first time. It took me a while to accept... but now I understand. In time, I hope that you will, too, and will be excited at the prospect of taking control of your love life, once and for all.

For the purpose of this soulmate quiz, the more of the above questions you can honestly say ‘Yes’ to, the further along you are in the soulmate continuum. In other words, the closer you are to being soulmates!

You're soulmates!

If you said yes to 20 questions or more, you're definitely soulmates! Woo-hoo! You're the couple that we all want to be! This doesn't mean everything's perfect all the time, or you don't have stuff to work out. Just that you are confident you will work it out, and you're good for each other in the process. Enjoy your gift.

Look at you! You're twin flames (twin spirits)

If you said yes to 20 questions, plus Yes to question #24 (about working together for a larger purpose), then I'm so excited for you! In this case, you may not only be soulmates, but twin souls (also known as twin flames, or twin spirit).

Did you think that twin flames, were one soul that had been separated? That's a common misconception.

You're in a significant karmic relationship

If you said Yes to less than 20, then it's likely you're in a significant karmic relationship. Some people call these karmic soulmates.

Sure, there are some situations where a less than perfect relationship is beneficial for soul growth. However, my research is clear that we are not obligated (nor encouraged) to stay in relationships that drag us down, or are abusive to us — period.

Thanks for taking this soulmate quiz!



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