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Welcome! Here's where I share my heart explorations around love and soulmates. Because we're all one, you may find that my heart reflects yours too.
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August 19th, 2013
Soulmate secrets from the relationships around you
Part of being accountable for our lives is understanding that the ‘buttons’ others push in us, are mirrored projections of an unhealed or unconscious part of ourselves. Indeed, our relationships are the clearest, brightest mirrors displaying what's in our hearts. Even if what's inside isn't comfortable to see.
Over time, I have begun to notice the relationships around me in a new way. I'm attuned to them, because I know that they have information for me.
At times, I have to admit that sometimes, I've idealized others' relationships, from the outside in. I don't tend to be an envious person, yet witnessing a long marriage, beautiful home or affluent partnership, I'd wonder how someone got so ‘lucky’.
July 19th, 2013
The purpose of heartbreak
Don't know about you, but I've been there: desperately trying to stay afloat in the depths of an emotional abyss. Spinning with no end in sight.
Well first, let me say: if you hold on, if you keep searching: you will emerge. And then slowly, you'll become more, well: You.
Resisting this? Play with me a moment. To do this, imagine a time in your life when you had it all figured out. You're a child, fearless. You think you've met your soulmate. You got that job, or you got into that school.
How much time did you spend on inner questions? Next to none, right? When life is going tickety-boo and there's no discomfort, why go there?
May 24th, 2013
When you dream of an ex, what does it mean? (my story)
In my romantic past, there have been three men for whom I truly mourned when it was over. In all of these cases, they were situations where chemistry on every level ran deep, yet truly knowing and loving one another never had a chance to begin.
There have also been many whose presences in my life were fleeting, dramatic and excruciatingly painful, lined with illusion and confusion.
Each time I had one of “those” experiences, my heart opened further. I wrote. I softened. I grew. So I hold all of these men in my heart, especially those for whom I mourned deeply, with Love: for they made me who I am today. They were Catalystic Partners, if you will, if not partners for life.
April 16, 2013
My guilty pleasure: Gene Simmons Family Jewels
Playfulness, curiosity, wonder. These are radiant states of being, which are gentle, magnetic and receptive. No argument there. The question is, when we slip into moments of self-doubt, how can we gently bring ourselves back into the flow?
Well, I have a few ideas for you and one specific suggestion you can do today: get your hands on Gene Simmons Family Jewels. Really! Bear with me a bit...
April 2, 2013
Reflections on waiting for love
Recently I shared old pictures with a good friend which ended up fuelling a number of reflections waiting for love. These were photos I hadn't looked at in years! It lead to this blog post, about how it really feels waiting for love to come into your life and what you can do about it.
March 25, 2013
Elmdea Bean interview: a real mid-life soulmate story
This is an audio interview with writer and past life regression therapist Elmdea Bean, who has experienced her own soulmate story, meeting and marrying her soulmate after a marriage earlier in life and then many years being alone. Her story is surprising and inspiring!
March 22, 2013
Your dreams and your soulmate with Dream Therapist Ursula Carsen
Why do people dream? What does my dream mean? Finding out what dreams mean has always fascinated me and recently I had the pleasure of interviewing Toronto Dream Therapist Ursula Carsen who clarified not only what dreams mean — but what dreams can reveal about our soulmates.
March 20, 2013
Interview with intuitive Charmayne Kilcup: Beyond 2012 and awakening to soul love
This is a fascinating and informative audio interview with California intuitive and psychologist Charmayne Kilcup. During our chat, we covered alot of information including 2012 awakening, the symptoms of spiritual awakening, creating soulmates in these new energies and more!
March 18, 2013
Overcoming a broken heart: Eights ways to help yourself now
Overcoming a broken heart isn't easy! If you're experiencing this now, here's what I suggest you do. This will also resonate for you, if you find yourself in a confusing, repetitive heartbreak situation and (again) overcoming a broken heart.
March 15, 2013
Handling a broken heart: Six reasons why it happened and making sure it never happens again
Your story goes something like this:
- I was happy, doing great on my own
- I asked for my soulmate to come in
- Then He appeared through astonishing serendipity. I felt certain: this is it.
- Fast forward, I'm heartbroken, it's turned into a painful, confusing situation (or never gets off the ground).
If this is you, you might find some good heart-healing insights here.
March 13, 2013
The Soulmate Continuum: How every person you meet has the potential to be your soulmate
When it comes to the concept of soulmates, I passionately believe that every relationship we've ever (or will ever) have resides somewhere on what I call The Soulmate Continuum. Picture a sliding scale with Conflict or Obligation (karma) at one end — and Love, Acceptance Freedom at the other.
March 8, 2013
Proudly Independent? Ways to make room for love.
I know so many incredible women. Strong, accomplished, competent. Which of course, when it comes to love, is a sticky wicket.
Is this you? Then you might be interested in these tips which will comfortably and safely open your heart, to the right person who will nurture you (for a change).
February 28, 2013
Secrets about introverts and Love (are you one?)
I re-discovered my natural introverted self two years after during a job interview. I ended up still being an introvert personality with an intuitive twist — no surprise — but also ended up being an INFP “Feeling Perceiving” which was described as a Joan of Arc type who would die for her values. Um — that explains a few things.
This blog post evolved into a reflection on what happens when you're passionately yourself.
February 20, 2013
Does online dating mess with fate?
Not too long ago, a luvly woman wrote me to thank me for sharing my inspirational interview with Elmdea, who met her soulmate online in mid life — and she asked me the following:
“Dear Karen — I've always presumed that meeting a ‘soulmate’ on an internet dating site was not possible, as I've always thought of this method as not leaving things up to fate. Elmdea's story has made me think otherwise — do you have anything that you can add to that?”
Well — yes I do have a few things to add. Hope you enjoy!