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Soulmate ready women entrepreneurs and heart-led professionals

Have questions about finding your soulmate?

Is this you? You may be a woman entrepreneur, professional (or entrepreneur at heart). You feel the shift 2012 brings and perhaps you feel anxious or out of sorts.

You're successful. Yet sometimes, you wonder if you’re on track.

You’ve never been one to shy away from you want. Yet deep down, you wonder if you can you really have it all. Success. A meaningful life. Plus a partner to share it with.

You a luvly guy who feels this way? Welcome!

You’ve been around. You’ve learned a few things about love and life. You feel ready for a soulmate, yet you want it to happen naturally. Without games, tricks or stress.

You know you need to create intention, take action. Yet traditional 'dating' makes you feel queasy. Maybe you watched Sex in the City (or maybe not) – but you know you don’t want to live that life.

Your life is full. You know your dating efforts (or efforts to deepen your current relationship) have been sporadic. You want real intimacy. You want to get it right this time.

Yet, other than online dating and a vague wish, you have no real plan.

At times, you’re filled with self-doubt. You may not even be sure what you’re seeking anymore. How you’ll recognize him (or her). Where you’ll meet him. What your unique soulmate relationship will look like.

The mainstream approaches to Love don't speak to you. Too slick. Not real. Some days, you do feel clear and expansive. Yet, the feeling doesn't last.

In fact, the hardest part is Trusting and Knowing that everything will all work out.

Do you fully trust that your soul mate is on their way? How do you keep your belief high each day?

How can you keep your belief high, even after months or years of a dry spell?

How can you open your heart again, after having it crushed?

After years of study, and thousands of dollars on courses, books, retreats and more: this is what I've learned:

  • Develop an insatiable curiosity about why you’re here, what’s important to you and why, and
  • Use a multi-faceted approach to growth, healing and getting to know your soul.

By taking this approach, you’ll stay on path more easily without struggle or stress. Your experience of life will deepen. You’ll experience clarity and focus.

The moments of magnetic expansiveness will last longer.

And quietly, naturally, when you’re happily on your path, your ready-now partner will tumble in or step up.

No flash. No Hollywood orchestra. An unexpected, luvly gift from your soul… to yourself.

Why I created The Soulmate Site

I'm Karen M. Black, a writer and founder of this site. I spent 20 years in corporate as a consultant, and I have an MBA from Rotman School of Management in Toronto, Canada.

I have sought answers far and wide. First psychology was it, then spirituality, karmic astrology and past life work. Then along came metaphysics, homeopathy and energy work, among others.

Each was powerful in its own way and I continue to recommend them - and there was something missing in all of them.

  • A focus on mindset and behaviour (traditional 'personal development') left out karma and energy
  • Emotional and karmic approaches (past life regression, conscious forgiveness) didn't bring transformation deep enough into the physical body
  • Physical approaches (e.g. exercise, nutrition) and energetic approaches (e.g. BodyTalk, The Reconnection) didn't consider karma, and dismissed behaviourial change.

You get the point. And!

None of these suggested complementary approaches or offered ongoing support to help me increase Knowingness and discover the combination of approaches best for me.

(I was on my own for that - you don't have to be)

What's your unique soulmate formula?

What I've observed in myself and hundreds of others is that only a multi-faceted approach to change is effective. One approach does not fit all and no one person or modality has all the answers.

However! If you embrace a multi-faceted approach, then the change you seek successfully makes the long journey from head, to heart and deep into the cells of the body (something that's rarely talked about). Loving Yourself along the way.

As for me, I began to write (and it did help) and what I found is that my writing also helped others. Another piece of my puzzle.

My award-winning novel Moondance is about finding your soulmate, but it's not a Cinderella or Pretty Woman story.

Instead, it shares the mysterious and often messy path to healing and successfully claiming Love in the real-world (at a thriller pace). Took me ten years to write, while I worked full-time and transformed my heart in the process.

In my corporate life, I took pension and benefit information and wrote it in plain language - go figure. It's been fun for me to do the same for complex, unconventional subjects that inspire possibility.

Would you like help, living "as if"?

It's one thing to have a burning desire for a soulmate, for Love. It's another thing to surrender the timeframe and live "as if".

That's the challenge: staying in Trust. Staying in Knowing. Even when everything on your radar screen says something different.

How are you doing with that?

For me, this site is a labour of love, part of my own personal journey. Inside this site, I share it all. A kaleidoscope of ideas presented for your consideration. Possibilities rather than Truth.

My guarantee

I could say you’ll read this site and meet your destined soulmate GUARANTEED!! in 10 days and that you will have a blissful relationship from day one.

No muss or fuss or work required. But I won’t lie to you.

For some, a soulmate does come quickly and easily. And - everyone's story is unique. Actually, how easy a relationship is depends (I believe) on where that relationship is on (what I call) The Soulmate Continuum. More inside.

Short story is that I sincerely believe that everyone can manifest their soulmate. What's required is equal parts Desire, Knowing, and completely surrendering the timeframe.

The soul-mandated requirement that before we can experience a soulmate partner in this lifetime, we must passionately love ourselves first and happily live "as if" for a time, different for everyone.

The soul-mandated equirement that we Imagine, Know and Believe... before we Receive.

My gift for you: some ongoing support living "as if"

How would you like to receive some gentle inspiration and support while you're living "as if" - for free.

Those who join me receive a FREE GIFT: a zippy title - with a lot o’ heart:

The 10 big mistakes smart, spirit-oriented women make while seeking a soulmate (and how to avoid them)

Tell me more

Hint: This report isn’t the only thing you get.



What else can you find here?

This site has been created specifically for folks (like you) searching on the internet for answers to their questions about soulmates and love. Here you'll find:

  • Facts compiled from a wide range of sources - in one place
  • Personally reviewed and highly recommended resources like The Relationship Catalyst and the only rose oil I recommend RoseOtto.com
  • Ideas on what I call the Soulmate Continuum (including how you have complete control over all of your relationships when you use this perspective)
  • Free real-world tools like my soulmate quiz and past life quiz(es), plus online dating tips which you can use
  • Critical information about 'karmic relationships' (and how you can transform a karmic relationship into a harmonious one)
  • Clarification about twin flames (a.k.a. twin souls, twin spirit)
  • Eye-opening insights about forgiving infidelity, coping with divorce and more, from humble, gifted clairvoyant Edgar Cayce.

And more! Let's start...



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Full disclosure

This site has been strategically created for folks seeking information on the internet. In some cases, I do receive a wee commission should you buy.

Buying from the folks I love is a safe and good thing. It supports good people who are awesome at what they do, and gives me the ability to keep this site free for you. Nuff said. :-)


Free stuff for soulmate seekers
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The most intelligent soulmate information in one place on the net
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Handy map of this site
Here's a handy sitemap of the soulmate site. There's much more information here than first meets the eye...

What is a soulmate?
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Definition true love
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Help getting over heartbreak
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These soulmate quotes are heart-healers
Often, soulmate quotes find me exactly when my heart needs them. Here are the ones with the biggest aha factors...

Heartbreak quotes
50 heartbreak quotes that comfort and inspire, offering unique messages for each of us...

Relationship quotes
50 relationship quotes that will help you envision and manifest your intended soulmate...

The best love quotes
50 of the best love quotes (in my humble opinion) which open our hearts to man's expansive nature...

Serious about finding your soulmate?
Finding your soulmate is sooo different than finding a date. Here is the one critical - and rarely talked about - thing you must do, if you are looking...

Karmic astrology: a soulmate secret
Karmic astrology is one of the most powerful soulmate secrets and almost no one knows about it...

Adult romance ideas which support the law of attraction
Adult romance ideas, consciously chosen, energetically support your soulmate search. Here are my fav romantic recommendations for home, style and self care...

Find soulmates now
Find soulmates by taking these action steps: 10 things you can do today

How to find true love
Wondering how to find true love? Six strategies you may not have thought of...

Free soulmate quiz based on esoteric research
I wrote this soulmate quiz to help people (and me!) decide once and for all, whether or not they've met soulmates or twin flames in life...

Ten soulmate indicators
Ten soulmate indicators that aren't revealed on a first date...

Edgar Cayce: a psychic explains soulmates
Clairvoyant Edgar Cayce offers the most eye-opening information on soulmates I've seen, unlike...

Free past life quiz for lovers
Past life quiz asks 10 simple questions to help you decide if you need to know about your past lives...

Your Wish is Your Command: a unique soulmate strategy
Your Wish is Your Command is an astonishing CD series which (among other things) can help with finding your soulmate. Curious how? If so, I am personally willing to...

About Karen M. Black
Karen M. Black shares her insights, humour and experience and to inspire you to keep searching until you find your soulmate...

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