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An addictive tale of awakening, soulmates and past lives

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Adult romance ideas: How to consciously use the energy of romance in your soulmate search

Adult romance ideas for the purpose of seduction is fairly common. What I want to give you is something different.

Helping you use romance consciously, as part of your soulmate strategy. Why? Because without discernment, romance can be a rush but umm... a tad problematic when it comes to the law of attraction. Let me explain.

We've all heard it: romance doesn't last, and the bigger our romantic addiction, the harder the fall. Though romance may spark or deepen a connection (karmic or otherwise), the euphoria is impossible to sustain long-term. Bottom line? Traditional romance is fun and seductive, but it doesn't solidify a soulmate relationship.

The good news is that there are ways you can use romance consciously to supercharge the law of attraction around love. Plus! Enjoy yourself to boot. I call these adult romance ideas.

Romance... for adults!

For many centuries, marriages were ‘institutions’, often arranged by family. Then over time, more of us began marrying for love. Romance bloomed. So did divorce.

Fast forward. Today, many folks are growing away from an institutionalized version of spirituality and religion toward a more personal version, which may adopt quantum physics, Eastern, Judeo-Christian, Native American or Shamanic philosophies, energy, the law of attraction, karma, and more. Like most marriages today, we're becoming more and more empowered and encouraged to choose. In essence, we're becoming spiritual adults.

In my view, it's a ripe time to use adult romance ideas to re-frame our love lives. Like some music, art and literature, I see romance as something that has the power to unlock our hearts. We may associate this heady feeling with our ‘other’ — but really, it's a wee taste of the divine energy within us all. Falling in love is one way we learn more about our true natures. No wonder it can be so addicting. And sometimes, heart-wrenching when it ends!

But here's the thing. What if ‘romance’ can be used strategically and consciously to support the steps to finding your soulmate. AND... what if there are specific things you can do, unique to your soul, that will help your soulmate recognize you. This is where I get excited!

This ain't no childish notion. It's what I call ‘adult’ romance ideas for spiritual grown-ups. ☺

Conscious romance?

The key is to use romantic energy consciously. Why? Because unconscious romance — is like romance for children. All the affirmations and conscious intentions we have are out the window. Our unconscious takes over. Reality is optional. Our misty-eyed glasses fog. Karmic relationships take over. Emotional devastation follows.

I sound frivolous here, but I'm serious! Your unconsious always wins — unless you take steps to understand it. Lurking silently, I call these our hidden saboteurs. You can uncover them through many personal growth techniques, including understanding your ‘karma’ using karmic astrology. Hint: they're always fear-based. Once your ‘hidden saboteurs’ are no longer hidden, then you can take control, and the law of attraction works better.

How do you do that using adult romance ideas? Well first, the universe doesn't speak English — did you know? ☺ It speaks symbolically. Through feeling, sound, scent, symbols, colours. For some, through angels, guides and serendiptious signs. Like everything else governed by the law of attraction, romance is energy. So! How can you use this tidbit in your everyday life? How can you have your romance cake — and your long-term soulmate, too?

Supercharging the laws of attraction

What I'm suggesting is that as you're seeking ways of finding your soulmate, also take steps to supercharge the laws of attraction. Do this by consciously surrounding yourself with soulmate images, symbols, scents and ideas that say to the universe [insert your own word]:

“Here I am! I'm using adult romance ideas over here, to demonstrate my commitment, okay? To raise my vibration, to make it easier for YOU, my faithful universe bud, to align the synchronizing forces that will bring us together... deal?”

With me? Cool! That's what this section of this site will help you do.

Some spiritual adult romance ideas ☺

You may decide to explore these romantic ideas together with your current sweetie Or you might do them for yourself. Enjoy!

Ideas for YOU

Single romance ideas on how to attract love by romancing yourself first. Inexpensive and easy things you can do today!

Here are some more great romantic ideas...

Thanks for reading my adult romance ideas!

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Soulmate lyrics – Music, can not only add to romance, but it can open and heal our hearts. Here are my favs with links to the songs — play loud !

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